Archive | July, 2010

Men wearing high heels

I’m always reading and hearing shoes are a girls best friend and think to myself, what about men wearing high heels, why should women have all the fun wearing sexy high heels click clacking all over the place? We’re all human and we should embrace things that make us feel good, however unfortunately it tends to be quite difficult when men wearing panties, lingerie and high heels is still regarded taboo.

Though putting that aside, why should you wear high heels? What are the benefits? I decided to look into this and went to Wikipedia for some answers which had an article on High-heeled footwear. High heels have quite a number of benefits surprisingly, from creating the perception of longer legs to smaller feet and shorter toes. Plus they help strengthen lower leg muscles, which helps achieve that refined look, creating sex appeal!

However, with a positive there is always a negative and high heels come with just as much benefits and they do drawbacks. From foot pain to foot deformities to the increase of sprains and fractures. Simply put: high heels will eventually create foot and tendon problems with prolonged use.

But I digress, wearing high heels with lingerie is arousing and I love it, amongst others I am sure! What high heels do you like, if high heels at all? Send through your thoughts, I’m very interested to hear what you have to say!

Take care,
YW xxx

Why do men wear panties?

Men wearing pantiesProbably one of the most common questions asked today, why do men wear panties and women’s clothing? There are many reasons and everyone isn’t the same! I for one enjoy the comfort, feel and look, it provides sexual arousal and feeling of being a woman. I’m sure other men and women can relate perfectly but at the end of the day, you’re doing it for your own reasons, not really what society deems “fit”.

Many men wearing panties are stuck with the same old dilemma, “I have a secret that I like wearing women’s clothing but I can’t actually be open about it because you might get scared and run away!” This is mostly common around married men who are “happily” married to the love of their life but find it extremely difficult to speak to them about it. But I guess that’s what happens when you keep a secret, it’s either going to come out at some point or eat you up for the rest of your life. I followed the front foot approach and was open about my love for lingerie firstly to strangers on the internet to my sister, who was funnily enough quite complacent about it. I wasn’t open and yelling it to the rest of the world, only told really the people I trusted. My mother then found my secret stash and questioned me about it, asking “I found some underwear in your drawers which doesn’t belong to you, who owns it?”. I basically told her and she was actually a bit amused but understood. I was even so close to my Dad I felt it was right to tell him. His response was clear “Whatever you do in your own time which doesn’t affect others, I couldn’t really care less!” (in a nice way of course).

In this world there are many things which you can love, from television to literature to theatre to music, but even with so many options available to us, we can’t love them all. Therefore I say, love what you feel is right. I love my pink panties with polka dots and dressing up with sexy 6″ heels! Because at the end of the day, feeling good and happy is important for yourself and everyone else!