Probably one of the most common questions asked today, why do men wear panties and women’s clothing? There are many reasons and everyone isn’t the same! I for one enjoy the comfort, feel and look, it provides sexual arousal and feeling of being a woman. I’m sure other men and women can relate perfectly but at the end of the day, you’re doing it for your own reasons, not really what society deems “fit”.

Many men wearing panties are stuck with the same old dilemma, “I have a secret that I like wearing women’s clothing but I can’t actually be open about it because you might get scared and run away!” This is mostly common around married men who are “happily” married to the love of their life but find it extremely difficult to speak to them about it. But I guess that’s what happens when you keep a secret, it’s either going to come out at some point or eat you up for the rest of your life. I followed the front foot approach and was open about my love for lingerie firstly to strangers on the internet to my sister, who was funnily enough quite complacent about it. I wasn’t open and yelling it to the rest of the world, only told really the people I trusted. My mother then found my secret stash and questioned me about it, asking “I found some underwear in your drawers which doesn’t belong to you, who owns it?”. I basically told her and she was actually a bit amused but understood. I was even so close to my Dad I felt it was right to tell him. His response was clear “Whatever you do in your own time which doesn’t affect others, I couldn’t really care less!” (in a nice way of course).

In this world there are many things which you can love, from television to literature to theatre to music, but even with so many options available to us, we can’t love them all. Therefore I say, love what you feel is right. I love my pink panties with polka dots and dressing up with sexy 6″ heels! Because at the end of the day, feeling good and happy is important for yourself and everyone else!