Man Wearing Panties

According to Wikipedia.org, the definition of “Transvestic fetishism” means to have a  sexual or erotic interest in cross-dressing. I personally found this interesting considering I always classified myself as a cross-dresser and nothing more, however reading more into cross-dressing and the technicalities behind it, it was very intriguing to learn the many sub-parts of cross-dressing, not just being limited to men wearing panties or a man wearing womans clothing or men in heels etc.

The more you explore, the more you learn, the more connected you are with your history and I think this is a great example. Now it’s safe to assume people reading this have either heard of this, read about it, learnt more about it or know nothing. As transvestic fetishism can occur in any human for any reason, many who are quick to judge simply do not understand or want to see the true meaning.

We all love cross dressing here and probably being a woman, otherwise why else would you be reading this? Haha! Though to have a respect for this is even greater than you, me and a few other trannies out back so if you are truly someone who loves wearing womens clothing, heels or slipping on some panties, then smile and pat yourself on the back, it’s not wrong, it’s not right, it’s just who you are…now enjoy it!

-YW xxoo

I thought I’d write an article targeted towards those men who reside in the straight category in life. Being straight myself, I used to find myself faced with a question that phased me out a bit, even more so than normal, because I didn’t have an answer. The question was simple, “Am I gay because I wear panties and/or dress up?“. In my person opinion, this question is bollocks. It’s automatically implying that you’re something because of a certain feeling you feel.

As we grow, we are conditioned by certain things in our childhood, as that’s where our structure is created. As we move into being an adult, we build from our structure and start to mature and expand our mind. If you keep it simple, you can find the answer to your question quite easily. Put it like this: Just because you don’t like the soft drink Sprite, doesn’t mean you won’t like the soft drink Coca Cola. The thinking is what sets us apart. Just because you do something that the majority of society believes is categorised, it doesn’t nescessarily mean it is. You are the bearer of your own world, you are who you are. You will not ever be the same as the person next to you or the person 10,000 miles away. You make your own decisions, you control your own self – you are unique.

When we do something that is orientated sexually, compassionitately or stimulative, we do it because we get the urges to do so, because we like it. Even though serial killers and murderers are doing something they like to a extent, it’s a natural law that shouldn’t be crossed, and that’s taking another human beings life. When you wear panties and some sexy shoes, are you hurting anyone? Are you stealing money or damaging someone else’s property? not at all. You are being who you are in your own comfort zone, being happy and enjoying the beautiful sensation free flowing. If you feel 100% attraction to the opposite sex but still love to wear panties like me, then you’re straight. If you don’t have that full attraction, then you’re probably in between. If of course you like neither and wish for the same sex, then you are gay – it’s simple, isn’t it? Well, in a high sense however talking about categorisation of sexual orientation is a whole different matter…lets keep it to wearing panties and being straight.

You know the score, you know what you want, keep it real and pull those ruffled panties up!

Love always,
-YW xxx

I’ve noticed I love wearing and dressing in lingerie when I can but have you ever thought about experiencing it with someone else? I have, many times and to be honest, actually have. I’m very comfortable with my sexuality yet I don’t brand myself as I believe that is a recognition that you stride with society. I’m not in any way physically or mentally attracted to men, it’s only women but that doesn’t mean I don’t respect people if they’re attracted to their own sex.

The first time I had sexual relations whilst wearing panties was a few months ago, with a beautiful girl by the name of Joanne. She was incredible, I mean very open to all sorts of things and at first didn’t fully understand my attraction to panties but after time passed, she understood how it made me feel and it engaged her uncontrolably. She wanted me to put her stuff on and slide up and down on top of her, she commented saying “I’m feeling that rock hard dick but the softness of a womans touch too.”. At that moment I knew it was something not only special but very interesting to continue.

For the next few months we caught up, went out and nestled back into bed with each other, constantly feeling the warmth of each other and lusting over each others eyes. She touched me in places where I thought I’d never consider and made me feel very comfortable. Words are pretty much indescribable and I wish I could somehow relay it more to you…but with so many feelings in one session, I simply urge you to try it…..you won’t regret it nor will your partner

-YW
xxx

We’re always dreaming when we’re sleeping, however we only remember a small fraction of them. I’ve remembered a few of my dreams whilst being sound asleep wearing some comfy panties. Those dreams have been all fantasy, generally situated around hot passionate sex with another women, being dressed in lingerie whilst caressing her leg and softly kissing her lips. These dreams are very sensual, without a doubt however it’s interesting to learn about them, try and have an understanding of what they mean. Let’s take into consideration the variables in these dreams:

• A woman
• Me in lingerie
• Passionate intimacy – touching, kissing etc
• No talking

First off we have a woman, now I’m not attracted to men in any physical or mental way, therefore my feelings are only towards women, so this clearly states what I already knew – I’m an average and natural male!

Secondly, we have men in lingerie, something that I love to do in my own time, making me feel safe and secure, a very deep desire I yearn for when I’m sexually aroused.

Thirdly intimacy, which I love undoubtly, maybe a bit more then most men my age though I find it so much better then sex most times, it allows two people to feel connected more then any other time and allows us to put all daily woes to the side and be as one.

Lastly, no talking. I’m not 100% sure what this means apart from you simply don’t speak words when making love though I do prefer listening in general life, rather than rambling on – so maybe it’s a shutup and let’s connect type of thing haha.

All the above things I deeply enjoy and feel my dreams are simply stating what I already know – I’m content within myself and understand who I am.

Have you thought about your panty fantasy? or simply analysed what your dreams may mean? It can be very interesting to take a peek if you haven’t already…and who knows, you may find more about yourself and what your particular panty fantasy could be!

People ask when they get informed of my fantasy, a simple 3 letter word, “why?”

Why do I wear panties? Generally, many struggle to find backbone reasons why we get aroused by this particular fetish and I guess you could say it’s like any other fetish, each to their own. However, fetishes are usually formed by a certain experience which probably effected their sub-conscience at that particular time, but it’s possible they were aware of it though this is not as common. A lot of things come from your childhood, you would agree, like the way get brought up, the environment, your manners, certain ways from you parents etc, so why would you fantasies be any different? Well, your fantasies are created by your brain to help balance or “ease” the woes of your other side, so your mind can be put to rest and relax on sexual stimulate – which is healthy for you. When you were 7 or 8 (if you can remember), you weren’t worried about boys/girls, just having fun, school and exploring the world though deep down, your mind was taking in EVERYTHING, stuff that would get filtered through your brain for years and years to come, helping you understand modern life in order to ’survive’. You wouldn’t of known if you were sexually aroused like you would know, probably be just a funny feeling to you at the time. So generally, that’s where it would’ve started. You ‘accidentally’ saw something, had the funny feeling, kept it in your mind and processed it for the next 4-5 years, incredible, no?

So back to the topic at hand, why do I wear panties? Mostly for sexual arousal which invokes a feeling of goodness and comfort – for me anyway. It all started when I was 6 and found a pair of panties in my dads shed. No, he wasn’t cheating, I believe they were my mums and I think I knew at the time but I put all that aside and tried them on.. why? That I couldn’t say. This is where to this day I’m still trying to figure out what made to do so. Maybe it was curiosity or something to do with it being women related, helping me feel closer to my mum or revisiting the feeling of nurturing. Anyway, so I did and they felt like an unspeakable thing. They were a pink pair of silky panties, very soft though they were a little big for me at the time, but I didn’t care! I walked around the shed in these silky panties with all these new and exciting feelings going all through me like a racing car set – it was incredible. From then on, I would do what I did, when I could but made sure to put them back exactly where they were..however, I don’t think my dad even noticed…more at a later date.

There are 5 main reasons why I wear panties, and they are:

1. Deep, inner feelings
When I wear any sort of feminine clothing (i.e. lingerie, panties, heels) or see someone in panties, I get this deep feeling which beats my heart fast, then moves down and excites ‘Harry’ into something big and wonderful. It almost feels I switch to a whole new identity, allowing me to act like the opposite sex and forget about my manhood for a short while.

2. Material
The material on any sort of clothing is erotic, as men’s underwear is mostly simple with no sex appeal to it, the feeling of switching to something tight, soft and sensual makes me go insane. My libido just jumps ship from man to women.

3. Childhood Experience
As I found these wonderful feelings in my childhood, they still remain with me, as anything you do for the first time. I can still remember all the new things I did and learnt as I went along.

4. Safe & Secure
I’m unsure why this comes into it, still trying to figure it out, but when I change into a woman, I automatically feel a sense of comfort, like my mind reassuring me everything is ok now. Come to think of it, this could be my minds way of healing my broken parts i.e. stresses of the day or repressed childhood memories. Allowing my mind to take time and break it down without my knowing.

5. It’s Hot!
It’s simply that – Hot. I’m not physically attracted to men at all, nor do I feel obligated to be but seeing another man in women’s clothes excites me because automatically my mind switches into that world and feels what I would if I was doing that. Plus, sexy lingerie for the right person really helps increase the raunchiness. I hope my future girlfriend will find it attractive and we can experiment and have fun along the way with it.

If you have anything to add or want to write your story, it would be interesting to hear. I’ve read stories on other websites and have a few favourites though sometimes, I just wonder if it’s actually real. So! Let me know, I’m always up for stories.

Hopefully this has been an interesting read if you’ve gotten this far and I thank you for doing so. Cheerio!

-YW xxxx
(YoungWearer)