Man Wearing Panties

According to Wikipedia.org, the definition of “Transvestic fetishism” means to have a  sexual or erotic interest in cross-dressing. I personally found this interesting considering I always classified myself as a cross-dresser and nothing more, however reading more into cross-dressing and the technicalities behind it, it was very intriguing to learn the many sub-parts of cross-dressing, not just being limited to men wearing panties or a man wearing womans clothing or men in heels etc.

The more you explore, the more you learn, the more connected you are with your history and I think this is a great example. Now it’s safe to assume people reading this have either heard of this, read about it, learnt more about it or know nothing. As transvestic fetishism can occur in any human for any reason, many who are quick to judge simply do not understand or want to see the true meaning.

We all love cross dressing here and probably being a woman, otherwise why else would you be reading this? Haha! Though to have a respect for this is even greater than you, me and a few other trannies out back so if you are truly someone who loves wearing womens clothing, heels or slipping on some panties, then smile and pat yourself on the back, it’s not wrong, it’s not right, it’s just who you are…now enjoy it!

-YW xxoo

I thought I’d write an article targeted towards those men who reside in the straight category in life. Being straight myself, I used to find myself faced with a question that phased me out a bit, even more so than normal, because I didn’t have an answer. The question was simple, “Am I gay because I wear panties and/or dress up?“. In my person opinion, this question is bollocks. It’s automatically implying that you’re something because of a certain feeling you feel.

As we grow, we are conditioned by certain things in our childhood, as that’s where our structure is created. As we move into being an adult, we build from our structure and start to mature and expand our mind. If you keep it simple, you can find the answer to your question quite easily. Put it like this: Just because you don’t like the soft drink Sprite, doesn’t mean you won’t like the soft drink Coca Cola. The thinking is what sets us apart. Just because you do something that the majority of society believes is categorised, it doesn’t nescessarily mean it is. You are the bearer of your own world, you are who you are. You will not ever be the same as the person next to you or the person 10,000 miles away. You make your own decisions, you control your own self – you are unique.

When we do something that is orientated sexually, compassionitately or stimulative, we do it because we get the urges to do so, because we like it. Even though serial killers and murderers are doing something they like to a extent, it’s a natural law that shouldn’t be crossed, and that’s taking another human beings life. When you wear panties and some sexy shoes, are you hurting anyone? Are you stealing money or damaging someone else’s property? not at all. You are being who you are in your own comfort zone, being happy and enjoying the beautiful sensation free flowing. If you feel 100% attraction to the opposite sex but still love to wear panties like me, then you’re straight. If you don’t have that full attraction, then you’re probably in between. If of course you like neither and wish for the same sex, then you are gay – it’s simple, isn’t it? Well, in a high sense however talking about categorisation of sexual orientation is a whole different matter…lets keep it to wearing panties and being straight.

You know the score, you know what you want, keep it real and pull those ruffled panties up!

Love always,
-YW xxx

I’ve noticed I love wearing and dressing in lingerie when I can but have you ever thought about experiencing it with someone else? I have, many times and to be honest, actually have. I’m very comfortable with my sexuality yet I don’t brand myself as I believe that is a recognition that you stride with society. I’m not in any way physically or mentally attracted to men, it’s only women but that doesn’t mean I don’t respect people if they’re attracted to their own sex.

The first time I had sexual relations whilst wearing panties was a few months ago, with a beautiful girl by the name of Joanne. She was incredible, I mean very open to all sorts of things and at first didn’t fully understand my attraction to panties but after time passed, she understood how it made me feel and it engaged her uncontrolably. She wanted me to put her stuff on and slide up and down on top of her, she commented saying “I’m feeling that rock hard dick but the softness of a womans touch too.”. At that moment I knew it was something not only special but very interesting to continue.

For the next few months we caught up, went out and nestled back into bed with each other, constantly feeling the warmth of each other and lusting over each others eyes. She touched me in places where I thought I’d never consider and made me feel very comfortable. Words are pretty much indescribable and I wish I could somehow relay it more to you…but with so many feelings in one session, I simply urge you to try it…..you won’t regret it nor will your partner

-YW
xxx

People ask when they get informed of my fantasy, a simple 3 letter word, “why?”

Why do I wear panties? Generally, many struggle to find backbone reasons why we get aroused by this particular fetish and I guess you could say it’s like any other fetish, each to their own. However, fetishes are usually formed by a certain experience which probably effected their sub-conscience at that particular time, but it’s possible they were aware of it though this is not as common. A lot of things come from your childhood, you would agree, like the way get brought up, the environment, your manners, certain ways from you parents etc, so why would you fantasies be any different? Well, your fantasies are created by your brain to help balance or “ease” the woes of your other side, so your mind can be put to rest and relax on sexual stimulate – which is healthy for you. When you were 7 or 8 (if you can remember), you weren’t worried about boys/girls, just having fun, school and exploring the world though deep down, your mind was taking in EVERYTHING, stuff that would get filtered through your brain for years and years to come, helping you understand modern life in order to ’survive’. You wouldn’t of known if you were sexually aroused like you would know, probably be just a funny feeling to you at the time. So generally, that’s where it would’ve started. You ‘accidentally’ saw something, had the funny feeling, kept it in your mind and processed it for the next 4-5 years, incredible, no?

So back to the topic at hand, why do I wear panties? Mostly for sexual arousal which invokes a feeling of goodness and comfort – for me anyway. It all started when I was 6 and found a pair of panties in my dads shed. No, he wasn’t cheating, I believe they were my mums and I think I knew at the time but I put all that aside and tried them on.. why? That I couldn’t say. This is where to this day I’m still trying to figure out what made to do so. Maybe it was curiosity or something to do with it being women related, helping me feel closer to my mum or revisiting the feeling of nurturing. Anyway, so I did and they felt like an unspeakable thing. They were a pink pair of silky panties, very soft though they were a little big for me at the time, but I didn’t care! I walked around the shed in these silky panties with all these new and exciting feelings going all through me like a racing car set – it was incredible. From then on, I would do what I did, when I could but made sure to put them back exactly where they were..however, I don’t think my dad even noticed…more at a later date.

There are 5 main reasons why I wear panties, and they are:

1. Deep, inner feelings
When I wear any sort of feminine clothing (i.e. lingerie, panties, heels) or see someone in panties, I get this deep feeling which beats my heart fast, then moves down and excites ‘Harry’ into something big and wonderful. It almost feels I switch to a whole new identity, allowing me to act like the opposite sex and forget about my manhood for a short while.

2. Material
The material on any sort of clothing is erotic, as men’s underwear is mostly simple with no sex appeal to it, the feeling of switching to something tight, soft and sensual makes me go insane. My libido just jumps ship from man to women.

3. Childhood Experience
As I found these wonderful feelings in my childhood, they still remain with me, as anything you do for the first time. I can still remember all the new things I did and learnt as I went along.

4. Safe & Secure
I’m unsure why this comes into it, still trying to figure it out, but when I change into a woman, I automatically feel a sense of comfort, like my mind reassuring me everything is ok now. Come to think of it, this could be my minds way of healing my broken parts i.e. stresses of the day or repressed childhood memories. Allowing my mind to take time and break it down without my knowing.

5. It’s Hot!
It’s simply that – Hot. I’m not physically attracted to men at all, nor do I feel obligated to be but seeing another man in women’s clothes excites me because automatically my mind switches into that world and feels what I would if I was doing that. Plus, sexy lingerie for the right person really helps increase the raunchiness. I hope my future girlfriend will find it attractive and we can experiment and have fun along the way with it.

If you have anything to add or want to write your story, it would be interesting to hear. I’ve read stories on other websites and have a few favourites though sometimes, I just wonder if it’s actually real. So! Let me know, I’m always up for stories.

Hopefully this has been an interesting read if you’ve gotten this far and I thank you for doing so. Cheerio!

-YW xxxx
(YoungWearer)

I love wearing panties, a bra and simply strolling through the house in clikky clakky clear heels (not me above). Not sounding full of myself, though standing in the mirror with this outfit gets me quite turned on, I feel this rush of adrenaline and warmth inside and just want to do unspeakable things! I’m sure you have an understanding of what I speak, you see a beautiful blonde (or brunette) walking in a tight bikini top and bottom with a pair of sexalicious heels, with a little voice yelling “Please, throw me down and caress me all over!” – that only you can hear of course and you just get fired up, like a natural animal ready to chase his prey to the vivid end.

Though it’s not all positive fun when it comes to this natural obsession, I’ve read many stories about men who are so scared of expressing their inner sexuality with others that they don’t tell a single soul..unless of course, anonymously. I can honestly say, I understand exactly where they’re coming from.Our society is built on tunnel vision ways, stuff that we’ve inherited from our ancestors, good in some cases, bad in others like this. Fortunately, there is good news. Cross dressing is becoming more known to people and in some ways, intriguing – especially when an online shop in Japan (Wishroom) starts selling men’s bra’s and sells over 300 in the first 2 weeks!

Wishroom's Bra for Men Available in White, Black or Pink

Now this would be much more comfortable, being designed for men and all. A nice pair of matching panties, 6 inch clear heels and a blonde wig to boot and I’ll be clacking down that hallway all day long!

I remember buying my first pair of heels, I was so excited walking down the hallway in them, I stood there for 10 minutes in my bra and panties just enjoying the sensation flowing through my body – it was spectacular…something that only heels can achieve.

Tell me, do you feel even hotter and more sensual wearing heels then looking in the mirror just gets you all tingly? or do you prefer another type of shoe, like boots or flats? Let me know your thoughts, I’m always intrigued by others and would love to hear from you

Take care, – YW xxx

Wearing panties is one of the most erotic things for us cross-dressers though I also seem to have a few other feelings, mainly feeling a sense of comfort or relaxation. The soft, sheer material wrapping around me just sends me into a calm state, a knowingness nothing bad awaits. There is of course those times when you’re walking past the lingerie section in Target and you get an instant hard on, simply wanting to dive into the isles, wear 20 pairs and blow all over the roof haha but exploring other areas I found is just as intriguing.

Sex is the last thing, it’s the lust, fire and compassion which really turn me on, rubbing my body against a soft skinned girl with my dick rock hard is sensational. I also found when no one is home and I slip into a pair of pink cotton panties, I tend to act more feminine. For example, get the momentum to keep cleaning, cook a hearty meal and sit down with some chick flicks, strange right? Well, I used to think so until I started analysing.

It’s simple — automatically we are born and grown up with the perception of various things. I got brought up learning women cook, clean and look after the children where as the man goes out, works his ass off then comes home for some nice wet muff. This is the ‘traditional’ perception, yes however that’s how I perceived things growing up. So when my mind gets triggered by wearing feminine, I automatically assume that position and pretend I’m a hot, young girl — now come to think of it, I’m getting quite turned on

Let me know your thoughts on wearing panties and so forth. Do you do other things than just whack off and be done with it? Do you like to experiment with different scenarios or maybe you can relate to my feelings? I would love to hear from you!

Yours Lovingly,
-YW xxx

Note: From here on, I will try and post my own pictures. I will let you know if it’s not me! xx